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Things to say instead of "stop crying"/Qué decir en lugar de "deja de llorar"

2/25/2021

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As parents, we get to deal with big emotions everyday. And sometimes, in the heat of the moment, we might find ourselves using some less than positive phrases to address those emotions. "Stop crying, " for example, doesn't tell an upset child that he will be ok, instead, it tells him that his feelings aren't important and that you are not ok with his pain. 

*Click HERE to learn some positive phrases to say instead of "stop crying!."
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Negative Versus Positive Language/Lenguaje Negativo versus Lenguaje Positivo

2/1/2021

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Limiting negative language like “no,” “don’t”, and “stop” is an important part of positive discipline. It’s all about lessening their use to rewire our children's brains for positivity and offering clear instructions and choices.

Below are some alternatives to common phrases that will help you through some of those difficult moments when you want to react with frustration instead of love.

*Click HERE to continue reading!  

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Create your own calming wheel of choice/crea tu propia rueda de opciones de calma

1/27/2021

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Focusing on solutions is one of the primary goals of Positive Discipline, and children are great at focusing on solutions when they are taught the skills and are allowed to practice them. The wheel of choice is a great tool to teach children problem solving skills. This tool looks like a pie chart, with 4-8 pieces (depending on your child’s age) that have ideas or solutions for what to do in a given situation. When faced with a challenge, a child can simply look at the chart and pick the solution that works for him.
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There are many ways to use the wheel of choice. You can use it to teach children healthy coping strategies, conflict resolution, chores, etc. 


*Click HERE to continue reading! 

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Positive Discipline Parenting Tool -  SCHEDULED SPECIAL TIME FOR CONNECTION/TIEMPO ESPECIAL PROGRAMADO

12/9/2020

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One of the most important things we can do for our children is to spend regular, scheduled special time with them. We can spend long days together, yet our attention may be divided and our children’s frustration builds as they realize we are not fully present. Most children will let us know in their own “creative” ways if they feel that we are not giving them the attention that they need. Some will withdraw while others will act out.

Spending scheduled quality time with our children is extremely important for their development and happiness but carving the time isn't always easy. Below are some tips and ideas: 

Plan: Brainstorm with your child a list of things that you would like to do together during your special time. Take turns choosing an activity (activities do not need to cost any money or be fancy). 

*Click HERE to continue reading!
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Positive Discipline Parenting Tool -  WINNING COOPERATION/GANANDO COOPERACIÓN

11/19/2020

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Mutual respect is the clue for cooperation. When we ask for cooperation from our children in a kind and respectful way rather than demand it, we find they are much more likely to comply with what we’ve asked. In other words, we get far more cooperation by inviting than demanding (see PD tool #4 - Curiosity Questions).

When we demand by ordering, correcting, and directing, we invite a natural fight or flight response and our chances of winning cooperation greatly decrease. Demands often lead to power struggles, tantrums, distance and hostility. On the other hand, asking respectfully leads to closeness, trust, and cooperation.
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There are certain things we can do that greatly increase the chances that kids will cooperate with us. Below are the 3 steps to win cooperation: 


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Positive Discipline Parenting Tool -  FOLLOW THROUGH/CONTINUAR HASTA EL FINAL

11/11/2020

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We all agree that healthy limits and boundaries are important, and we are usually pretty good at coming up with rules and consequences. The difficulty comes when we have to enforce what we say. Here is a common example: “If you don’t pick up the toys, they are going in the garbage,”. Toys remain scattered across the floor and parents just can't make themselves put the toys in the garbage.
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Talking about limits but not actually keeping them is just not helpful to children. Not following through leads to uncertainty, disconnection and even anxiety for both parents and children. Children usually know when parents mean what they say and when they don’t. But, why is it so hard for parents to follow through with consequences? 

Some parents believe that giving children what they want will show them that they are loved. 

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two-way bilingual immersion Elementary Schools

11/2/2020

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​Schools in many parts of the United States are increasingly offering dual language programs. The most common type of dual language programs is the two-way approach, also known as “TWBI” (two-way bilingual immersion). In TWBI programs some of the children are native speakers (in the target language), some are bilingual, and some come from English-only homes. Some programs teach in English for half the day and the other half in the target language (this is called the 50/50 model). Other programs are almost entirely in the target language in kindergarten and first grade (this is called the 90/10 model). The goal is to have all children test at grade level in both languages by fourth grade.
 
Although there are many language combinations, the English/Spanish pair is currently the most popular in our area. You can click here to see a list of Spanish TWBI elementary schools in the South Bay.
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Staying Healthy at Pasitos School ~ A Social Story

10/26/2020

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​Social stories are short stories that depict a social situation that children may encounter. They are used to teach children through the use of specific and sequential information about everyday events that children may find difficult or confusing, thus preventing further anxiety on the part of your child.

​Social stories have a wide variety of applications from understanding others’ actions and emotions, developing self-care skills, and general safety techniques to specific events or changes in routine. Check out our social story about staying healthy at Pasitos during Covid-19.
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Positive Discipline Parenting Tool -  aCTIVE LISTENING/ESCUCHA ACTIVA

10/24/2020

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Active listening is an essential tool of communication and one of the single most important skills you can have in your parenting toolbox. Active listening means observing and listening to feelings and reflecting them back. It means to recognize your child’s words, and more importantly to seek to really understand his underlying message.

For example, when a child says “I hate you, Mommy!” he isn’t saying “I hate you,” he is more likely saying something like, “I am mad that you are spending more time with the new baby than with me.”/ "Me enoja que pases más tiempo con el nuevo bebé que conmigo".

Active listening does not require that you agree with your child’s feelings, but it allows your child to feel connected and understood while creating a caring relationship in which he sees you as being “in his corner.” 
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Día de las Brujas

10/15/2020

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It's almost Halloween!  ¡Calabazas, fantasmas, monstruos! ¡Ay, ay, ay!  

1.  Song about a pumpkin, calabaza.
2.  Story about a ghost, fantasma. 
3.  Song about a monster, monstruo.  
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